From time to time over the coming weeks and months, I
am planning on reading and sharing my thoughts on several books that relate to
the topics of feminism and violence aimed at women. Before I begin to post
about these books and the ideas contained in them, I think that it is important
to share a little bit about some of my personal biases, options and
associations in relation to these topics. As of late my views have become very
strong.
I have always considered myself a feminist. Feminism
has always been one of the belief systems that I advocated. As with several
other social topics, I would have described myself a moderate on the
issue. Over the past year, for various reasons, on various social media,
but especially on Twitter, I have strongly spoken in support of causes focusing
on the reduction of violence aimed at women as well as upon feminism. Over the
past year, my support for feminist ideals, as well as my belief that violence
aimed at women is an enormous societal ill that needs more attention, has
strengthened.
There are two reasons for the increased level of my
convictions. First, I have been reading blogs and articles, as well as
listening to women, both in my life as well as on social media, concerning
these issues. This has convinced me as to the gravity of the issues that women
face worldwide as well as the far - reaching benefits of feminism to all of
humanity.
Something else has solidified my beliefs and led me to
a point where I would now describe myself as an adamant and committed feminist. Something dark has come along with the recent trend of women speaking out strongly on social media about violence and sexism. I am not unique in observing unrelenting threats, harassment and insults, some
of it perpetuated by semi - organized groups, against women who speak about
gender issues on social media. This goes well beyond the usual trolling. It is extremely
serious. At its worst it involves death, torture and rape threats directed at
both notable Internet personalities as well as against less famous people who I
know personally. There have also been campaigns of slander, as well as the
release of extremely personal information aimed at women who speak about gender
issues. Lately, there has been a fair amount of media coverage, especially on the
serious American public policy shows and publications on this issue.
Most of what my friends and acquaintances have
experienced was not even the result of speaking about feminism, but instead was
prompted as a result of protesting the morally unambiguous issues of rape and
violence directed at women.
There is a lot more that I have witnessed that has
shocked and angered me. It has been really ugly and unrelenting attempt to
silence women who express views on these issues. If anyone is curious for additional details I
will be happy to discuss in either in my comments section or through private
email.
All this has helped to convince me that misogyny is a
much greater problem in the Western world then I ever imagined, and that the
ideals embodied by mainstream feminist thought are directly relevant to what is
going in in social media.
I bring this up in context of my future posts to
highlight that fact that I am not unbiased in this argument. The unrelenting
rage that I have observed by a percentage of my fellow men, directed at women
who speak on these issues has influenced my opinion in many areas relating to
gender issues as well as feminism.
I choose to strive for intellectual honesty. That
means I will attempt to examine all ideas critically and fairly. I will listen
and discuss dissenting views. I intend to be as open minded and civil as I
always am. My regular readers know what I mean.
I can and will apply my usual open mindedness to anti–feminist or the ambiguous opinions of others. Feminism is a set if ideas that
like any set of ideas, should be open to scrutiny. There are reasoned and civil
arguments against feminist ideals. I would even point out that I do not agree
with every pro - feminist idea or concept. I will express my disagreement with
ideas, including pro – feminist ones, as I see fit in the context of these
books.
It is not anti – feminist ideas and opinions that
anger me, rather it is the ubiquities and unrelenting harassment of feminists
on social media (I must qualify this to say that there are a few extremely
odious ideas that I have encountered recently that I have no respect for. For instance, I
have run into folks who claim that most women are intellectually inferior to
men, that society should accept rape as natural, etc.) . I have had rational
discussions with both men and women, who for various reasons are anti –
feminists, who are reasoned, respectful and are in no way misogynist. I
consider this an intellectual disagreement.
Since I am bandying about the word, I think it is
fitting to define what I believe feminism is. In my opinion the term is one of
the most misconstrued around. For now, I will start with the basic Miriam -
Webster’s definition,
The belief that men and women should have equal rights
and opportunities.
and
Organized activity in support of women's rights and
interests.
The above definition is simple and in accord with my
own beliefs. I would go a little further and argue that in order to be a
feminist these days also means that one believes that there is still progress
to be made in the pursuit of equality.
Some of the thinkers that I will discuss in future
posts may have alternate definitions that I hope to explore.
In my opinion feminism has been given a bad name. Feminists
have been unfairly stigmatized as all adhering to the most extreme positions. Like
most broad based ideologies with a lot of adherents, there are some very
controversial feminist thinkers and ideas out there. One does not need to
accept all, or any, radical or revolutionary ideas to be a feminist. However, I
hope to investigate and weigh in upon some of these controversial ideas in upcoming posts.
I also would like to address the contention that I
have heard from some feminists as well as others: that is the opinion that men
cannot be feminists. Since I consider feminism to be a set of ideas and ideals,
I would argue that anyone who holds such ideas and ideals is a feminist.
I want to mention a couple of books that I have
already read and written commentary on. While not considered a book on
feminism, The Better
Angels of Our Nature: Why Violence Has Declined by Steven Pinker, is
in my opinion, a profoundly important work that relates to the subject. In this
book, Pinker lays out a hardheaded and convincing case for what he believes are
five historical forces driving humanity to a more peaceful, prosperous and
virtuous future. One of the factors he calls “Feminization”, which is basically
the empowerment of women and the increased influence of women on society. My
commentary on this work is here.
Christine de Pizan ‘s The Book of The
City of Ladies was written in 1405. Christine was amazingly ahead
her time in her presentation of what I would call pre - feminist ideals as well
as in her identification and criticism of what today we would call
stereotyping. I commented upon this book here.
I do think that I will take on some challenging and
controversial books. I will be reading authors who have ideas on gender issues
that I both agree and disagree with. Thus I anticipate some very interesting
posts to come.


